Any thought on dating while in college? I was asked out a few times by this guy I often see studying in the library. Studying in the library, that’s always a good sign, right? Well, who really knows? He could be all messed up with some major undisclosed issues. It’s not like a man comes with his issues written on his forehead.
I look at it this way, I’m on the right track at this time and I’m doing great in school for the most part. Why mess up the direction I’m going in so soon. I don’t think I have time for school, friends, and for dating right now. Sure going to eat is fine and so is going to a movie or a party. Anything serious in regards to dating doesn’t sound like a good idea right now for me.
Maybe in a year or more or once I’m steadily on track, I can make time for dating. I just think dating exclusively or too often is too much for me right now. Sure, some hopeless romantics may think I’m messing up and that I may miss a once in a lifetime chance by missing my dream man by saying no to a date. It is what it is; my time is limited and very fragile right now.
What do you think? Am I reading too much into one simple date? Should I go on a date while I’m just barely getting used to things as a young college girl? Or do you believe as I do, that I know myself best and know what is good for me right now? Please share by commenting below. I need help right here!
